Sharing this on my blog to show some of you out there the other side of the equation. The grass is not always greener on the other side, or simple as some of you might think.
There are many well intended guys like me go out of our way to do this type of work, and it is quite a sacrifice in many cases, and in many ways often times. There are some disrespectful guys out there with little to no sense of self worth, and they often go around pulling these types of stunts over and over again and again to guys in this biz, sometimes thinking it's actually OK, and with a sense of self entitlement. Like we are somehow less deserving than others.
Well, I am here to set them straight and let this type of person know that this type of behavior is unacceptable. It is wrong and this is why I am choosing to to put a spot light on it. Even if it's just to make some, of you think twice, before being rude, nasty, or just plain disrespectful.
Clients Name; was "Mike" Said he was traveling through Philadelphia
Phone Number;He used a Google voice # came up as "unkown with these digits attached+18325890326 my experience is that these numbers listed are his actual phone number, and it is how we corresponded.
Date of Appointment; Sunday 10-7-12 at 11 pm My Hotel Holiday Inn downtown Philadelphia
Details;
He had been texting me for the past 3 days.. since I got to Philly talking about meeting. The day before our set appointment he text me I replied right away then I didn't hear back for 4 hours later. Then he asked again if I was around. I wasn't.
So Sunday I text him back early he replied with something silly wow how hot. Asked If I had leather the day before. He asked what my size was I replied to which he said, "oh wow how hot" Finally again hours later, I text him saying if you want to meet call me I can chat now.
I spent over 30 mins chatting with him. Trying to get clear on what his likes were and on how he wanted the session to go. Said he was not to keen on massage due a past trauma and that it sometime weirded him out and he might push me away. Said he was a Vanilla guy likes to get sucked off mostly. Was not looking to get fucked and that he might suck or not. Described himself as ( FAT ) about 204lbs. only 5' 7" tall. Kept saying how much he likes to kiss cuddle hold and feel the guy in the leather pants. ld told me hw had a pair for me I told him ok that I would wear them and to bring them.
This is a sample of the text exchange. You can see how nice I was. Nothing to make him just decide to leave, never telling me to forget ior that he changed his mind. I called 3 minutes later but he didn't pick up. Notice that only 6 minutes after our appt. time I let hime know atm's were close by, and his immediate reply was "who is this" Because I called from my other phone number. You will see that I replied with my name, "Adam"
It was clear here that less than 6 minutes later he deleted all my text messages and simply decides to be a total dick. walk away go back to his hotel and never had the decency of even giving me a response to tell me that he would find a different ATM and get back to me once he does.
So here I am thinking he probably will go a block away and come back. Never happened. Instead within 15 minutes he blocks my number so when I call i get a "this number is no longer in service" which is a Google Voice feature, once you block a caller. FUCKED UP!
Phone Number;He used a Google voice # came up as "unkown with these digits attached+18325890326 my experience is that these numbers listed are his actual phone number, and it is how we corresponded.
Date of Appointment; Sunday 10-7-12 at 11 pm My Hotel Holiday Inn downtown Philadelphia
Details;
He had been texting me for the past 3 days.. since I got to Philly talking about meeting. The day before our set appointment he text me I replied right away then I didn't hear back for 4 hours later. Then he asked again if I was around. I wasn't.
So Sunday I text him back early he replied with something silly wow how hot. Asked If I had leather the day before. He asked what my size was I replied to which he said, "oh wow how hot" Finally again hours later, I text him saying if you want to meet call me I can chat now.
I spent over 30 mins chatting with him. Trying to get clear on what his likes were and on how he wanted the session to go. Said he was not to keen on massage due a past trauma and that it sometime weirded him out and he might push me away. Said he was a Vanilla guy likes to get sucked off mostly. Was not looking to get fucked and that he might suck or not. Described himself as ( FAT ) about 204lbs. only 5' 7" tall. Kept saying how much he likes to kiss cuddle hold and feel the guy in the leather pants. ld told me hw had a pair for me I told him ok that I would wear them and to bring them.
This is a sample of the text exchange. You can see how nice I was. Nothing to make him just decide to leave, never telling me to forget ior that he changed his mind. I called 3 minutes later but he didn't pick up. Notice that only 6 minutes after our appt. time I let hime know atm's were close by, and his immediate reply was "who is this" Because I called from my other phone number. You will see that I replied with my name, "Adam"
It was clear here that less than 6 minutes later he deleted all my text messages and simply decides to be a total dick. walk away go back to his hotel and never had the decency of even giving me a response to tell me that he would find a different ATM and get back to me once he does.
So here I am thinking he probably will go a block away and come back. Never happened. Instead within 15 minutes he blocks my number so when I call i get a "this number is no longer in service" which is a Google Voice feature, once you block a caller. FUCKED UP!
I waited was
patient, understanding, and he fucked me over. I too am tired of ass-hoes like this with their pathetic and low self esteem dragging through the floor, going around getting away with disrespecting us like this
too!
I sent this client a couple more texts until about 11:40 pm. I wasn't really sure, and was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. But I left that out here.
Please post his info, so he can be on this bad client black list, and warn others in the biz.
Below is a copy of some of the texts so you can see there was no wrong doing on my end at all. And no reason for this cowards pathetic behavior!
Me: if you get into the lobby before 11 just have a seat on 1 of the lounge chairs just relax it's a really nice lobby and text me from there okay. 10:41 PM
I sent this client a couple more texts until about 11:40 pm. I wasn't really sure, and was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. But I left that out here.
Please post his info, so he can be on this bad client black list, and warn others in the biz.
Below is a copy of some of the texts so you can see there was no wrong doing on my end at all. And no reason for this cowards pathetic behavior!
Me: if you get into the lobby before 11 just have a seat on 1 of the lounge chairs just relax it's a really nice lobby and text me from there okay. 10:41 PM
+18325890326:
k
10:42 PM
+18325890326:
here
10:52 PM
Me:
U got the leather too?
10:53 PM
+18325890326:
yup
10:53 PM
Me:
K come to room 716
10:54 PM
+18325890326:
hey i'm having a hard time with the atm dispensing. give me a minute
10:55 PM
Me:
Oh ok
10:56 PM
+18325890326:
it isn't letting me pull cash put
10:59 PM
Me:
I wouldn't have waited to get to the hotel for that 1.
11:00 PM
Me:
you might have to walk up blocker to I don't know.
11:00 PM
Me:
I block or 2..nt sure.....
11:01 PM
Me:
well no worries is the doors r locked I'll go get you...
11:01 PM
+18325890326:
i know, i don't like running in philly with cash... murderdelphia
11:01 PM
Me:
it's not that bad I just came from outside it's pretty quiet.
11:03 PM
Me:
Aww... and your timing was so perfect... ATM's on the corner of fifth and market pretty sure
11:06 PM
Me:
Adam
11:08 PM
Me:
Mike we been texting
11:08 PM
Me:
??
11:09 PM
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